In one of Ellis Peters' medieval mysteries, The Leper of St. Giles, the diseased beggars living near Shrewsbury wear cloaks and veils that allow only their eyes to show. Sometimes this appears almost to encourage rough treatment by others passing by, as if it is easier to abuse someone you can't really see; the beggars are more like shadows or ghosts than real people, individuals, flesh and blood beings. But Brother Cadfael, reflecting on the times he has treated some of their sores (through his work as the abbey's herbalist), says that he has found sharp minds, unique personalities behind the veils..."by a thousand infinitesimal foibles of character that pierced through the disguise, they emerged every one unique." He has the gift of seeing what others miss.
In The Living Page, Laurie Bestvater says, "One of Mason's primary purposes for making history the 'pivot' of her curriculum is to allow the child to see the flow of history and to think of himself within it." She points us to Philosophy of Education, page 273, where Charlotte Mason calls history "the proper corrective of intolerable individualism." So history, as a way of seeing, cuts us down to size but also shows us where we belong; gives us a place and time but makes it clear that there are other places and times that matter just as much.
But we have to see it. However we can make that happen, for ourselves and our children.
Monday, January 06, 2014
Epiphany, liturgy, lasagna (and Charlotte Mason)
Epiphany, January 6th, celebrates Christ made manifest--shown in His glory to the Gentiles, who are represented by the Magi. A manifestation is when you see something, right? And "having an epiphany" is often used, these days, to describe suddenly seeing (and understanding) something clearly.
And what is "liturgy?" A generic definition might be "a fixed set of ceremonies." A spiritual habit or discipline, maybe. If you attend a liturgical church, it means that the worship time is laid out ahead of time, word for word: prescribed, observed, repeated. As opposed to figuring it out fresh every time, or letting everything happen spontaneously.
In the Mitford books, Father Tim, an Episcopalian priest, often goes off by himself to "repeat the office." He is not going to his office; he is saying his prayers, those that are laid out in the prayer book for different days and different times of day. An office is a service you do for someone, in the same way that we call worship time a service. That's where we get our word "officer."
On a site called The Daily Office West, I found this thought (in their FAQs: "The Office provides a framework for your thoughts, needs, concerns, thanksgivings, confessions and resolutions, so your praying becomes extremely personal. You wouldn't build a house without a foundation; once that’s down, you follow a written plan, and after it’s done, you decorate it so it suits your personality. Ideally, the Office provides a discipline; that’s why it’s best used Daily. If you wait until you’re inspired to pray spontaneously, God may be waiting a very long time to hear from you."
Framework, written plan, discipline. What does this have to do with Epiphany, or Charlotte Mason? It's coming, hold on.
Several years ago I posted "Lasagna Without Recipes," meaning that you could add a variety of ingredients, mix and match, leave out the tomato sauce or the cheese or the meat, and still have something that's recognizably lasagna. But you still have to give it structure with noodles or something else to keep it separated in layers, or what you end up with is not lasagna. It might be a good casserole, but it's not lasagna, because it's the structure that gives it its shape and identity.
Like lasagna, we need a framework in our worship, our life and our learning. Or at least we can say that a framework gives it more meaning.
In her preface to The Living Page, Laurie Bestvater quotes a passage from Wendell Berry's novel Jayber Crow, about seminary students who "could tell you" but "didn't see." They could not see the beauty of the world around them, and so did not connect it with the Creator. She also refers to Charlotte-Mason-style notebooks as things that "teach us to see" AND that are "the liturgy of the attentive life." A framework, a discipline, a structure...and yet a place to add our individuality, our own taste. ("Us" and "our" also meaning the students, of course.)
A big epiphany, a star in the heavens, might be experienced once in a lifetime, but we can watch for small epiphanies, glimpses of glory. And if we make use of the disciplines of learning, they may help us to keep our eyes open.
Linked from Hot Homeschool Hop: January 2014, at the HSBA Post.
And what is "liturgy?" A generic definition might be "a fixed set of ceremonies." A spiritual habit or discipline, maybe. If you attend a liturgical church, it means that the worship time is laid out ahead of time, word for word: prescribed, observed, repeated. As opposed to figuring it out fresh every time, or letting everything happen spontaneously.
In the Mitford books, Father Tim, an Episcopalian priest, often goes off by himself to "repeat the office." He is not going to his office; he is saying his prayers, those that are laid out in the prayer book for different days and different times of day. An office is a service you do for someone, in the same way that we call worship time a service. That's where we get our word "officer."
On a site called The Daily Office West, I found this thought (in their FAQs: "The Office provides a framework for your thoughts, needs, concerns, thanksgivings, confessions and resolutions, so your praying becomes extremely personal. You wouldn't build a house without a foundation; once that’s down, you follow a written plan, and after it’s done, you decorate it so it suits your personality. Ideally, the Office provides a discipline; that’s why it’s best used Daily. If you wait until you’re inspired to pray spontaneously, God may be waiting a very long time to hear from you."
Framework, written plan, discipline. What does this have to do with Epiphany, or Charlotte Mason? It's coming, hold on.
Several years ago I posted "Lasagna Without Recipes," meaning that you could add a variety of ingredients, mix and match, leave out the tomato sauce or the cheese or the meat, and still have something that's recognizably lasagna. But you still have to give it structure with noodles or something else to keep it separated in layers, or what you end up with is not lasagna. It might be a good casserole, but it's not lasagna, because it's the structure that gives it its shape and identity.
Like lasagna, we need a framework in our worship, our life and our learning. Or at least we can say that a framework gives it more meaning.
In her preface to The Living Page, Laurie Bestvater quotes a passage from Wendell Berry's novel Jayber Crow, about seminary students who "could tell you" but "didn't see." They could not see the beauty of the world around them, and so did not connect it with the Creator. She also refers to Charlotte-Mason-style notebooks as things that "teach us to see" AND that are "the liturgy of the attentive life." A framework, a discipline, a structure...and yet a place to add our individuality, our own taste. ("Us" and "our" also meaning the students, of course.)
A big epiphany, a star in the heavens, might be experienced once in a lifetime, but we can watch for small epiphanies, glimpses of glory. And if we make use of the disciplines of learning, they may help us to keep our eyes open.
Linked from Hot Homeschool Hop: January 2014, at the HSBA Post.
Dollygirl's Grade Seven: Term Two, Week Three
Starting back to school after our holiday break--but we started Term Two before Christmas, so we have a head start. It's a nasty day here today (unlike A Peaceful Day's first day of Year Seven). The school buses are cancelled, the rural schools are closed, but somebody made the decision to keep the city schools open, so Ponytails is off to Grade Eleven in a taxi...that is, if the taxi ever comes. And that's because the end of our driveway is completely plowed in.
Things to do today, besides shovel out:
Look through the term schedule, talk about special things coming up.
Read some of Ourselves Book II.
Do some of Algebra Lesson 4 on TheMathPage.com.
Read some poetry.
Read Watership Down.
Do a page of grammar (verb tenses).
Science: start a crystals kit that The Apprentice dug up. Read some of the chapter on fossils.
Whatever Happened to Penny Candy?
Dollygirl will probably want some crafts time, but right now she has her own ideas for crafts and does not need any suggestions from me.
Friday, January 03, 2014
Frugal Finds and Fixes, New Year's Edition
What have we done lately that doesn't involve money? Around the holidays that's a tough one. Even homemades require ingredients of one kind or another. Sometimes you just want to do special things that do cost money. We had some meals out over Christmas, and also a theater movie (we hardly ever go to movies). But we did put dinner in the slow cooker for after the movie. Actually Mr. Fixit did, and I appreciated that.
We did save some money...unfortunately...by having a proposed Boxing-weekend trip to Toronto knocked out from under us by the ice storm. It just didn't seem like a really good time to be touristing there, with hundreds of people still out of power, subways not stopping at all the stations, and all kinds of other problems. We do not get to Toronto very often (as in, hardly ever), and there are some things we'd like to do and people we'd like to see there, so we'll just call it a postponement.
On a more positive note, we got through the last week and a half with only one trip to the grocery store. The fridge is a bit empty now, but we do have freezer and pantry food, so a medium-sized shop tomorrow should be enough.
Two of my daughters (one professional, one still learning) worked my hair over. I pay for the supplies, but they don't charge me for their services.
The Apprentice found herself a comforter at Wal-mart, marked way down. Possibly more than it should have been, but they honoured the price tag anyway. She took it with her when she left to go back to school today.
I downloaded several e-books by Beth Moore that are free right now. Not my usual kind of reading material, but I thought they were worth checking out. Details here.
Dollygirl has turned her attention, at least temporarily, from jewelery-making to sewing. She found some purple stretchy fabric that had come from a yard sale, and has made herself a hat, a pair of fingerless gloves, a funny-faced stuffed head, and I'm not sure what else.
We stopped just long enough at the library today to drop off some DVDs and check the discarded-book rack. Mama Squirrel found a copy of Home to Holly Springs (one of the "post-Mitford-series" books) for fifty cents, and also a short illustrated book about Dr. Gideon Mantell and the Iguanodon. The second book is written at such a low reading level that they don't even expect children know how to pronounce "museum" without help; but for another fifty cents I still thought I'd add it to our rocks-and-fossils corner.
Mama Squirrel and Dollygirl both found some cool craft supplies and things for future holidays at a Michael's clearance sale, some at up to 80% off the original prices. Dollygirl, especially, did really well; she found a couple of $15 craft kits marked down to $3, and spent this afternoon using one of them to make a safety-pin bracelet.
And if you really want to read some knock-your-socks-off frugal accomplishments, check out the comments on the Prudent Homemaker's post-Christmas post. Man, those ladies make me feel like pretty small potatoes when it comes to saving money. But every little bit helps, right?
We did save some money...unfortunately...by having a proposed Boxing-weekend trip to Toronto knocked out from under us by the ice storm. It just didn't seem like a really good time to be touristing there, with hundreds of people still out of power, subways not stopping at all the stations, and all kinds of other problems. We do not get to Toronto very often (as in, hardly ever), and there are some things we'd like to do and people we'd like to see there, so we'll just call it a postponement.
On a more positive note, we got through the last week and a half with only one trip to the grocery store. The fridge is a bit empty now, but we do have freezer and pantry food, so a medium-sized shop tomorrow should be enough.
Two of my daughters (one professional, one still learning) worked my hair over. I pay for the supplies, but they don't charge me for their services.
The Apprentice found herself a comforter at Wal-mart, marked way down. Possibly more than it should have been, but they honoured the price tag anyway. She took it with her when she left to go back to school today.
I downloaded several e-books by Beth Moore that are free right now. Not my usual kind of reading material, but I thought they were worth checking out. Details here.
Dollygirl has turned her attention, at least temporarily, from jewelery-making to sewing. She found some purple stretchy fabric that had come from a yard sale, and has made herself a hat, a pair of fingerless gloves, a funny-faced stuffed head, and I'm not sure what else.
We stopped just long enough at the library today to drop off some DVDs and check the discarded-book rack. Mama Squirrel found a copy of Home to Holly Springs (one of the "post-Mitford-series" books) for fifty cents, and also a short illustrated book about Dr. Gideon Mantell and the Iguanodon. The second book is written at such a low reading level that they don't even expect children know how to pronounce "museum" without help; but for another fifty cents I still thought I'd add it to our rocks-and-fossils corner.
Mama Squirrel and Dollygirl both found some cool craft supplies and things for future holidays at a Michael's clearance sale, some at up to 80% off the original prices. Dollygirl, especially, did really well; she found a couple of $15 craft kits marked down to $3, and spent this afternoon using one of them to make a safety-pin bracelet.
And if you really want to read some knock-your-socks-off frugal accomplishments, check out the comments on the Prudent Homemaker's post-Christmas post. Man, those ladies make me feel like pretty small potatoes when it comes to saving money. But every little bit helps, right?
Some things we did over the holidays
1. The Squirrelings came up with some creative and appreciated (and unique!) Christmas presents, including a framed photograph of our lilac bush from Ponytails, a pair of earrings made by Dollygirl but commissioned and given to Mama Squirrel by Mr. Fixit, and a copy of The Apprentice's class "coffee table book"--each science student contributed one chapter.
2. The chocolate-orange Christmas cake turned out all right, in spite of the bottom layer's threatening to collapse. We just put extra glaze on it to kind of glue it together, and extra fruit on top. Mama Squirrel was quite a lot worried that the cake might collapse into a pile of chocolate and oranges by dinner time, but it held up and nobody laughed too much.
3. We've been watching the first season of The Bionic Woman, the original series. Dollygirl got the DVDs for Christmas.
4. We spent a Saturday morning together downtown, checking out thrift stores and eating snacks at the "hemp cafe."
5. We clipped branches and toted part of Yet Another Backyard Tree (this has not been a good year for Backyard Trees) to a safe place across the road, after the Very Large Ice Storm.
6. We watched a famous person muff the words to "Auld Lang Syne" at midnight on New Year's Eve.
7. Four of us went to see Frozen, on New Year's Day.
7b. Funniest thing besides the movie: two kids sitting beside me. The cinema manager came in to say they had sold out the theatre and would everybody please move closer to the center to free up extra seats. Little girl: "What did he mean, they just sold the theater?" Same little girl, several times during the movie, "I love this part. I love this part." (How many times had she seen it already?) Same little girl: "This part is scary. Give me some more Smarties."
8. We just about got Frozen getting back to the car. It's gotten very, very cold. So cold the salt on the roads won't melt the ice.
How was your holiday?
2. The chocolate-orange Christmas cake turned out all right, in spite of the bottom layer's threatening to collapse. We just put extra glaze on it to kind of glue it together, and extra fruit on top. Mama Squirrel was quite a lot worried that the cake might collapse into a pile of chocolate and oranges by dinner time, but it held up and nobody laughed too much.
3. We've been watching the first season of The Bionic Woman, the original series. Dollygirl got the DVDs for Christmas.
4. We spent a Saturday morning together downtown, checking out thrift stores and eating snacks at the "hemp cafe."
5. We clipped branches and toted part of Yet Another Backyard Tree (this has not been a good year for Backyard Trees) to a safe place across the road, after the Very Large Ice Storm.
6. We watched a famous person muff the words to "Auld Lang Syne" at midnight on New Year's Eve.
7. Four of us went to see Frozen, on New Year's Day.
7b. Funniest thing besides the movie: two kids sitting beside me. The cinema manager came in to say they had sold out the theatre and would everybody please move closer to the center to free up extra seats. Little girl: "What did he mean, they just sold the theater?" Same little girl, several times during the movie, "I love this part. I love this part." (How many times had she seen it already?) Same little girl: "This part is scary. Give me some more Smarties."
8. We just about got Frozen getting back to the car. It's gotten very, very cold. So cold the salt on the roads won't melt the ice.
How was your holiday?
Thursday, January 02, 2014
Fancy Fruit Bars: Vegan or Not
I made some unintentionally-vegan fruit bars tonight, using the Cinnamon Raisin Bars recipe on the Hillbilly Housewife website. The vegan part was because somebody had eaten the last egg; but as the recipe says, it works pretty well without. The fancy part? I got a bag of mixed dried cherries, blueberries, and cranberries as a Christmas gift, and I used those instead of raisins, along with a few chocolate chips. The dried berries work well in this recipe because you pour a cupful of boiling water over them (or the raisins) and let them sit a few minutes while you mix the other ingredients.
Cut in bars, eat for dessert, and send some back to university with returning offspring. And remember to buy eggs.
Cut in bars, eat for dessert, and send some back to university with returning offspring. And remember to buy eggs.
Wednesday, January 01, 2014
Anne Ortlund, 1923-2013: Someone else who stuck
When I made that list this morning of books that had an impact, I forgot to include Anne Ortlund's 1977 book Disciplines of the Beautiful Woman. I always wanted to be organized and have a notebook and keep priorities straight like Anne. Well, I do at least have a notebook.
And then when I went to look her up online (thinking to add a P.S. to my earlier post), I found out that Anne passed away in November. I'm not on the right lists, I don't read the right websites; I tend to miss these things.
Or is it just that our modern saints seem to pass away so quietly these days that nobody notices?
And then when I went to look her up online (thinking to add a P.S. to my earlier post), I found out that Anne passed away in November. I'm not on the right lists, I don't read the right websites; I tend to miss these things.
Or is it just that our modern saints seem to pass away so quietly these days that nobody notices?
10 Books That Stuck, by Mama Squirrel
Jeanne is asking for the names of ten books that stuck with us in some way. I don't have the pile of books to take a nice photo like she did, but here's a very incomplete list.
1. Winnie the Pooh
2. What is a Family?, by Edith Schaeffer
3. Tears of Silence, by Jean Vanier
4. The Pilgrim's Progress
5. The Tightwad Gazette
6. Who Do You Think You Are?, by Alice Munro (very Southern-Ontario-gothic)
7. The Blue Castle, by L.M. Montgomery
8. The Educated Imagination, by Northrop Frye
9. 101 Famous Poems
10. The Heart Has Its Own Reasons
11. Brave New World. Had to be in there somewhere.
12. Material World, by Peter Menzel.
Which leaves no room for Charlotte Mason, David Hicks, Jean Little, Jan Karon, Elizabeth Enright, Sir Walter Scott, Don Aslett, Narnia, Shakespeare, Rumer Godden, Ray Bradbury, Dickens, Plutarch, or Mother Goose. But you can't have everything.
1. Winnie the Pooh
2. What is a Family?, by Edith Schaeffer
3. Tears of Silence, by Jean Vanier
4. The Pilgrim's Progress
5. The Tightwad Gazette
6. Who Do You Think You Are?, by Alice Munro (very Southern-Ontario-gothic)
7. The Blue Castle, by L.M. Montgomery
8. The Educated Imagination, by Northrop Frye
9. 101 Famous Poems
10. The Heart Has Its Own Reasons
11. Brave New World. Had to be in there somewhere.
12. Material World, by Peter Menzel.
Which leaves no room for Charlotte Mason, David Hicks, Jean Little, Jan Karon, Elizabeth Enright, Sir Walter Scott, Don Aslett, Narnia, Shakespeare, Rumer Godden, Ray Bradbury, Dickens, Plutarch, or Mother Goose. But you can't have everything.
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